Wednesday, February 13, 2008

"LIVE...in" relationship

Recently I heard from my friend that...Supreme Court is going to legitimate the offspring of live in relationship couples. My friend strongly opposed this development. Let see what will be outcome if Supreme Court legitimizes it.
live-in relationship is as simple as it's name "LIVE....in "relation where both boy and girl come together...spend some wonderful time of their life(they feel it that way) and when they feel that things are not working well....they go thier own way. Meanwhile these fancy couples give birth to children which are illegitimate at present as per law. By ligetimising, these children will get a meaningful life which they deserve. They will live normal life like other children. Moreover couples who are into live in relationship can have their children.
Many people are of the view that if such amendment is made in the law then marriages will become secondary thing. I feel exactly opposite; if such amendment is accepted then many people would get into live-in relationship openly. There will be no social binding on them to get married. In short, there will be no pre-marital affairs and extra-marital affairs since these people will not get married unless and until they feel themselves to do so. As result, marriage would become more sacred relationship then ever. In fact, once live-in relationship couples gain confidence in their relationship and believe that it could stay for long time of their life then the same couples would long for married life.

This amendment has macro effect as well. Our society still is not open for such kind of development. I am sure there would be strong opposition from across the country; it would be touted as by product of western culture and Indian culture would get ruined if this kind of thing is allowed. But for me the culture which has no boundaries and open for all kind of thoughts and practices of the world is the best culture. I am sure once this amendment is made and well accepted by whole society then we would really show to the world that we are growing economically as well as socially.